When you meet Julia, you SEE AMAZING!

21 May

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When you wake up to a new day, what do you see? Well, apart from blurry eyes and snotty noses due to sleep deprivation, congestion or insomnia, what makes you just, ‘want to keep waking up?

If you are in love, or still thinking of it, I guess you’re probably saying…’duh, my lover of course! If you are missing someone, you’d probably say…’dang! Oh precious beloved, showeth thy face!! Where hath thou!! (in your magical imaginary soberness).

And if you are like the group of people I meet weekly for support coordination therapy…’Aha! Slowly and gently rise from your slumber, squeeze your pillow and whisper into the hollow of your palm (oh please ignore your distinctive breath) and say slowly, ‘Today, I will do better, because I will See Amazing”

All said and done? Yes? C-o-n-g-r-a-t-u-l-a-t-i-o-n-s! You made it into another day! I am also cheering you on….’as I subconsciously cheer myself on too!

So, a couple of days ago, yours truly turned 45! Like…’yeah, the big 45! And I wasn’t sure if it was worth celebrating or not. Thank God for caring people around me who raised the roof and made it rock! #NoviUnconditionalLove

The much-younger me would have jumped on the next train to NYC to be consumed in the awesomeness of the city, sometimes, it’s just that train ride that does it for me, a more one-on-one time alone with me, myself and I! Just meditating  (I bet you can’t keep a city girl out of the city for long, how I missed my early years growing up amidst the hustle and bustle of a typical Lagos city amusement!) or as my parents have always dreaded all those years…’Oh, she’s started another birthday party in our living room without informing us! Phew!

But not this year… ‘This time around, it was all about Julia. The new #See Amazing kid on Sesame Street! Have you seen her? All cute and so peculiar…’representing every child with special needs…more so, Autism!

Why now? I’d ask myself over and over again. Yeah, why now Yinka?

Awareness. Acceptance. Because just as I celebrated my birthday, my childhood bosom friend and neighbor also turned 45! And happened to be the Julia we all never knew or could understand….’45 years ago!

Did we (children) know she had a unique personality? Or did we just assume she’d always been a difficult child with mental illness? Who knew about the features of a child on the spectrum then? I bet none of us did. All I knew was that I eventually got used to her mannerism as her parents were my God-parents who mentored me all through my sacramental classes at Holy Cross Cathedral then.

So, please meet Cecelia, 45, a daughter, a sister, a friend and childhood neighbor of over 40 years with autism, a rare one that survived the stare, stigma and slur but prevailed with the support of her loving and caring family in a society that condemns such ailment and is so quick to label, castigate and if possible ostracize.

Or perhaps, you also know a Cecelia?  a Julia of my generation, that stood out without condemnation even as ignorant as we were then of her uniqueness, still managed to join in the street play, still managed to attend mass every 6am with her parents, still managed to attend St. Mary’s convent, managed to get her feelings out even when she’s oppressed by lack of consistent vocalization techniques.

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Today, as I watch sesame street and I see how the world is embracing the new character of Julia – the chosen voice from the autism community, my eyes well up with tears and my heart is unable to contain the joy and excitement of knowing that finally…’every child deserves a place of acknowledgment and acceptance, and not one of isolation or disparity!  Thank you Leslie Kimmelman for the digital characterization and Stacey Gordon for the performance. Thank you autism community for starting the discussion.

When you awake to a new day, what will you be thankful for? I am grateful to God for allowing me to see amazing in every child I encounter. Tantrums and all, I still see amazing and acceptance first.

Yours in HOPE as I share Sesame Street’s ‘Meet Julia’










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9 responses to “When you meet Julia, you SEE AMAZING!

  1. Mrs. F.

    May 22, 2017 at 7:47 am

    Hey Yinka!
    You broke the curse on topics forbidden to discuss, especially in our African countries..
    Autism as mental health and the ignorance attached to it!
    Cecelia is like a token app of shame one in every 5 families in Nigeria has or had and would never talk about her.
    Meeting Julia of this generation will certainly pave way for a more accepting and contagious zeal to taking charge of autism in Nigeria.
    Looking forward to being part of your support group.
    I represent Cecelia and Julia, today for my child’s sake.
    God bless you.
    Mrs. F.
    V/I, Lagos.


  2. Michael

    May 22, 2017 at 7:38 am

    Oh the places we can go! If only we open our hearts to see amazing more!
    Every child should be accepted without any circumstances.
    Beautiful piece.


  3. Madge

    May 22, 2017 at 7:36 am

    We see amazing, awareness and acceptance in every child! Lovely piece Anthonia.


  4. Dohan F.

    May 22, 2017 at 7:34 am

    Thanks for sharing, sending a link to PBS! 😁


  5. Hassan D.

    May 21, 2017 at 10:50 pm

    Yinka, who says??? You’re forever 25 girl! Lol.
    I see amazing in you and your passion for these children
    I see amazing in your concepts of bringing Nuru’s World in Dubai to LIVE!
    I see amazing on the faces of those kids as you sit criss cross apple sauce on the floor with them, deep in laughter!
    Thanks for bringing Cecelia back and out for everyone to embrace.


  6. Paul.

    May 21, 2017 at 10:45 pm

    I see amazing in all children, tantrums and all.
    I love sesame street initiative!
    Welcome Julia.


  7. Marly.

    May 21, 2017 at 10:42 pm

    Yinka, your passion is so pure and genuine in the cause you believe in, I see amazing too..
    Love you girl!


  8. Anne Marie

    May 21, 2017 at 10:40 pm

    We see amazing Anthonia, thanks for talking about it


  9. Kemi

    May 21, 2017 at 6:29 pm

    Thanks for the beautiful description of ” Amazing”.

    Keep Shinning, keep smiling …Enjoy being 45 years young. xoxoxo



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