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Love songs in a fairy tale world. Do happy endings still exist?

21 Dec

I love a good story. I love love-songs that tell stories that are filled with drama, mystery, honesty, hope, grit, tension, release, passion, tenderness, love, restoration, and redemption.ft 1

My all-time favorite love songs/stories combine lots of these elements and finish with a happy-ending. My heart beats loudly for happy-endings and breaks without a sound when there’s an emotional turbulence. (Hmm, maybe that’s why I am still addicted to Indian movies).

I am usually edgy and fidgety at the beginning, a nervous wreck when feelings of passion and rage are about to be smashed by just mere words… ‘words that are so deep-seated, sentimentally erotic and nerve racking whimsical!ft 5

Aha! This is the part where I uncontrollably ball out in tears! The storyline gets to me, whether good or bad. I still get to wipe away a tear, sniffle through the self-acquired misery on behalf of my adopted cast. My enchanted moment!

Eventually, I bounce back to life wondering, Wow! Seriously? ‘Could this be real? ‘true love still exist? why does falling in love have to be so dramatic? ‘or expressing love have to be so painful? When we sing those leisurely played love songs, do we really mean it? I mean like…word for word? Unconditionally? Not like ‘you scratch my back, and I scratch yours too world”? Or are we just residing in a borrowed fairy tale world? Where our words do not align with our actions. ‘More like perfect strangers in a labyrinth drill? Emotion-free!

I remember when Disney’s Aladdin was released in 1992, my friends and I were totally amused by the theme song (A whole new world) and will mime to the lyrics courageously, like we knew exactly the power of love, ‘not that we had it dedicated to anyone special in particular, ‘it was just another karaoke event for us, but the lyrics were just so soothing and comfortable for anyone hoping to fall in love one day! ft 2

It was indeed splendid! I mean, ‘why wouldn’t a-young gal dream of flying on a magic carpet ride, seeing a whole new world with that special guy who can literally operate a magical carpet with his feelings! Remember folks! No mechanical experience needed here!! Fantasy or not. This is utopian! The real maudlin feeling that’s simply romantic! Ah! Tell me, ‘what else does a girl want? LOL!

So, there have been days in my life that have been heavy on the tension and light on the release of still believing in fairy tales. Moments when I’ve felt deep pain and longed for deep peace, hating those fairy tale stories. Weeks when hope evaded my heart because I had chosen to turn from God’s way and defiantly chose Yinka’s way (to live in a fairy tale world) Season’s when I felt like I had messed up so bad that a happy-ending for my life was simply impossible. I’d felt like one of the characters in the book I read and those deep romantic love songs.ft 4

Have you ever felt that way? Like there was a great chasm between your life and a happy-ending? Have you ever felt like you were in a situation, relationship or condition that was un-healable, un-helpable, and un-redeemable? I think we all have. If we are still honest with ourselves.

We all have that perfect love song hidden somewhere inside of us, never used our vocals to express it, but always nursing the lyrics, because they apply to us, it dictates exactly what we are going through and how we are feeling about someone or something.ft 3

One word: LOVE. Perfect, unconditional, doesn’t-matter-who-you-are-or-where-you’ve-been-or-what-you’ve-done love. God made a new and living way for our wounded hearts to be restored … so that everyone of us could experience deep peace, love, forgiveness, and hope.ft 6

What’s your happy-ending story? Still living in a fairy tale world? Hoping you will embrace true love in an authentic world as we begin to count down to the few days remaining in 2015. If you are reading this, remember I love you more and I sincerely mean it. Happy Holidays.

Yours in HOPE as I share my favorite love song/story as Aladdin takes Jasmine on a magical carpet ride. “A Whole New World” (musical recording by Regina Belle and Peabo Bryson).

Yinka

 

 

 

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9 responses to “Love songs in a fairy tale world. Do happy endings still exist?

  1. Tosin

    December 30, 2015 at 9:49 pm

    Very thoughtful

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  2. OBI

    December 21, 2015 at 3:03 pm

    Yinka, this surely speaks to me. Love you more girl!
    OB.

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  3. Tasha Thomas-Lee

    December 21, 2015 at 3:01 pm

    This was our wedding song! I love every word and hoping it will be like that for a long time. Fairy tales still lives inside everyone who just believe. .

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  4. Helena

    December 21, 2015 at 2:59 pm

    Yinka, I feel that way too sometimes too, especially after watching those fairy tales movies lool.
    But what to do? We just have to keep living. Am impressed. Keep it up girl.

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  5. Bella D.

    December 21, 2015 at 2:56 pm

    Happy Holidays. Love you more too 🙂
    Bella

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  6. Matthew McCollum C.

    December 21, 2015 at 10:57 am

    Dear Movingforward with Yinka,
    Sometimes, life just doesn’t supply us with our most desired dreams, especially when it comes to finding true love…I think we are allowed to have expectations of what we want it to be, or how or when..but only time will dictate the real expression. Sometimes, fairy tales could help build up our feelings and also it could break our desires to live in that make believe world. But at least, it started something good in us.
    My all time favorite fairy tales song is Lion Kings ‘ can you feel the love tonight’ – the lyrics still speaks to me till this moment, whether am in that perfect place to love or not. It simply just resonates good old memories, and that, I can never forget. I love your writing. Your mode of expression is very simple and sincere. You put the readers at alert. 5 thumbs up!!
    MMC.

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  7. Michael

    December 21, 2015 at 10:46 am

    Another fairy tale song is from Phantom of the ophera, love that too. But you’re right, Aladdin magical carpet ride is also amazing, good one.

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  8. ARIT.

    December 21, 2015 at 10:44 am

    This is so well written msgansy, it’s funny how you get to remember so many tiny details of those college days, lol. And that our Friday night karaoke event..beautiful, just beautiful! Posting this one FB. Love it!

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  9. IBK

    December 21, 2015 at 10:40 am

    Awww, Very nice! Love you more Sis. Merry Christmas.
    IBK

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